MONTEBELLO -- On July 4, 1970, Lupe Rodriguez
learned that her oldest son,
Frank, had been shot and found
by medics lying on a battlefield
in Vietnam. He was barely
alive, Rodriguez was told.
Just two years earlier, on Feb.
19, 1968, the Montebello mother
of five sons received a visit by
Marine Corps authorities, telling her that her fourth son, Reginald Rodriguez, 20, had been
shot and killed in Quang Tri
province.
Rodriguez had four other sons
in the Marine Corps. Three of
her children went to Vietnam.
One died there; another returned home seriously wounded.
"My third son, Philip, was in
Vietnam when Frank was
wounded,' she recalled. "His
superior officer took him to see
Frank.'
Frank Rodriguez was in bad
shape. He had been sprayed
with shrapnel. Tiny pieces of
metal had embedded themselves
in his body from his head to
his hips. His entire left side
was swathed in bandages.
"When Philip saw Frank, he
broke down crying,' the mother
said. "Frank put his right arm
over Philip when Philip bent to
hug him and he said, 'Don't
cry. I'm not going to die.' But
the chaplain was already there.
Frank refused to take the last
rites.'
Frank Rodriguez did not die
then. He returned to Montebello, where officials proclaimed
"Frank Rodriguez Day' in his
honor.
He was killed in 1975, however,
when a drunken driver plowed
into the back of a car that he
was hooking up to his tow
truck on the San Gabriel River
(605) Freeway in Baldwin Park.
"Two weeks later, he got a letter from the veterans hospital
in Long Beach,' she said. "He
went there once a month because he still had shrapnel in
his jaw and they were watching
him (in case) it moved toward
his brain. It could have killed
him. The letter said they had
discovered something else.'
He was diagnosed with terminal
cancer that had spead all over
his body.
"He served his country,' she
said simply. "Whenever the
president calls you, you have to
answer. It's your country.'
Whittier resident Jose Ramos
has embarked on a crusade to
honor men like Frank Rodriguez, his brothers and the thousands of other U.S. military
men and women who served in
Vietnam. Ramos, 54, a former
Army medic in Vietnam, wants
a federal holiday. He calls it,
"Welcome Home, Vietnam Veterans Day.'
Lupe Rodriguez supports the
idea of 'Welcome Home, Vietnam Veterans Day,' which Ramos says should be held Jan.
27, the anniversary of the signing of a peace treaty that led to
the end of the war.
"My mother was from Mexico
and my father was a Mexican
Indian, but she taught us that
we are Americans first,' Lupe
Rodriguez said. "She told us,
'Whatever you have, whatever
we have here, we owe to the
United States.'
"I know a lot of people look at
me like I'm crazy, but I don't
celebrate the fifth of May or
the 12th of September. The
Fourth of July is my day, but
it's a sad day because my son
was wounded.'
Rodriguez, a Montebello Human
Services commissioner, said
while Vietnam veterans already
are remembered each year
along with other war veterans,
on Memorial Day and Veterans
Day perhaps a special day of
recognition would help heal the
hurt.
A brotherhood
Many Vietnam veterans have
found acceptance and recognition among their colleagues. As
a result, some feel little need of
it from the federal government.
In South Whittier, three
friends, all Vietnam veterans
an Army cavalry soldier, a Navy Seabee and a Navy patrol
boat sailor expressed their
feelings about "Welcome Home,
Vietnam Veterans Day.'
"It's kinda late in coming,' said
Mike Mangerino, who rode the
river boats that shipped supplies to soldiers.
"You see how in the Gulf War
everybody got the ticker-tape
parade. So, a lot of us feel a little left out and kind of jealous,
whatever you want to call it.
They weren't even there long
enough to get sand in their
socks.'
He thought about the idea of
federal acknowledgment.
"Selfishly speaking, I'd like to
see it, as long as it doesn't become a profit-maker for some
people,' he added.
Filbert Cuesta Sr. was the Army soldier.
"I'd like to be left alone about
stuff like that,' Cuesta said. "I
love being around my Vietnam
brothers and I'll never stop doing that, but we're trying to go
forward. We don't want to go
backward.'
Former Seabee Robert Ortiz
thought of the Vietnam veterans who die each year.
"A friend of mine who used to
have a pinstriping shop in
Whittier passed away from
Agent Orange,' Ortiz said. "Every time we have a reunion at
the middle of the year, the commander tells us we've lost some
more guys. You know, it's a little too late for them.'
The veterans said that a holiday could increase the amount
of attention on the war in history books. Schoolchildren need
to learn about the draft, they
said.
"They should be thankful that
there's no draft and that they'll
never have to go through this
like we did,' Cuesta said. "The
draft here took a lot of kids
that didn't belong there.'
In Vietnam, disinterested draftees were dangerous to themselves and others, said Pete
Corodimas of Whittier, who
served as a helicopter door-gunner during the war.
"It was like a dirty trick. They
got us to go over there through
the draft. There were a lot of
people (fighting) against their
will. A lot of these people were
either getting themselves killed
through their immature antics
and spoiled brat attitudes, or
they were getting a lot of other
people killed.'
Mike Mangerino was drafted at
the age of 26. He had been married for four years, but the couple had no children.
"When I went over there, I was
drafted and I didn't want to go
in the Army,' he said. "I went
in the Navy so I could stay out
(of Vietnam). Anyway, I did go
and I thought, 'Well, I'm going
to fight communism.' So later
on, I found out it was a whole
different story. They were talking about oil, they were talking
about rights and all this other
stuff.'
Ortiz agreed that if "Welcome
Home, Vietnam Veterans Day'
prompted teachers to focus on
the war, it would be beneficial.
"Let them know about what
these guys went through,' he
said. "A few paragraphs in a
history book is not much for all
the guys who were killed
there.'
Lasting memories
"This happened to me 35 years
ago, but I remember it like it
was yesterday,' Cuesta said.
He was 19 a Latino from
South Whittier, dropped into
the swamps and rice paddies of
Vietnam. His sergeant handed
him a rifle and told him to
guard the main gate of the
camp.
"The sergeant kept telling me
not to take my eyes off the rice
paddy,' he said. "The Viet
Cong, they'd be laying in the
rice paddy breathing out of
bamboo shoots for days and I
didn't know that.'
Mangerino interrupted the story.
"(Most people) can't sit still,'
he said. "(The Vietnamese soldiers), they can hold perfectly
still for hours, for days.'
Cuesta continued his tale.
"Three days had passed,' he
said. "And, it happened on my
shift. They all stood up all of a
sudden. There must have been
100 of them all standing up out
of the water. I was looking
through a starlight scope with a
green background.
"Look, my skin still curls! They
were like zombies coming out
of the water. They outnumbered
us 10 to one. That'll make a
man out of you right away.'
-- Susan
McRoberts can be reached at
(562) 698-0955, Ext. 3029, or by e-
mail at sue.mcroberts@sgvn.com .